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And a new study of megachurch pastors finds that many laypeople appreciate pastors who are approachable and willing to share their own flaws.

Researchers from West Virginia University and the University of Washington analyzing data from 282 attendees in 12 megachurches found that people in the pews valued both the extraordinary and ordinary qualities of their senior pastors.

Many respondents said it was important that the senior pastor does not speak down to them, treats others as equals and is willing to share personal flaws.

One lay leader said when the senior pastor behaves in ways he should not, “he steps back and submits to the Lord. And that just really garners a lot of respect from us.. He’s very self aware of how he’s wired and (his) limitations.”

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Several studies in areas from mental health to addiction have urged clergy counselors to help people who face debilitating fears of sin and divine judgment become more aware of aspects of their faith regarding God’s love, mercy and capacity for forgiveness.